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How does one succeed in life?

13.06.2025 11:35

How does one succeed in life?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

What can I do when I'm ugly on both outside and inside? What do I do? Cut myself off from the world to make everyones lives better? I'm a monster. I hurt feelings, and I say what was said to me. I feel like I'm nothing but a burden. What do I do?

Does not procrastinate.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

What is the significance of Pete Rose, the all-time hits leader in Major League Baseball, who just passed away?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

That's it for today.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Which scene is considered the most difficult to watch in each of Quentin Tarantino's movies?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Is the water safe to drink in England like here in America or is it necessary to bring tablets to prevent any cholera when in London?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Is heroin really as good as people say it is?

What I need from you?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Can a bride cheat on her groom at a wedding?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Can we see your heels?

Making more friends is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Is Daenerys Targaryen really the most beautiful woman, or is everyone saying that just to flatter her?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Why is watching a man and a woman have sex considered perverted? It's how we all got here, it's what we do, I say if you want to watch porn then carry on!

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Why do I sometimes hear full conversations when I am alone?

Procrastinates a lot.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What is the reason behind some people referring to themselves as "nice guys" instead of simply being nice?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Ask yourself:

Artists get better with age, e.g., painting. Yet when it comes to pop music, the famous work tends to be written when musicians are in their twenties. So, why aren't Bob Dylan or the Stones banging out amazing tunes now?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

What is the kinkiest thing you and your sex partner have done in bed?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Was there any slavery of white people that actually compares to the transatlantic slave trade? I’m not baiting or anything actually genuinely curious and want to know.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What is a common thought that keeps people up at night? Why do some people experience this?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Losing 20kg is a goal.